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What's your relationship archetype?

Take the 60-second quiz built on real relationship science. Discover your love pattern — then meet people who actually did the work.

How it works
+ Join 2,400+ who found their pattern this week
Why people can't stop sharing it

A dating app you have to earn your way into.

The hook
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Certified before you connect

Everyone in the pool finished the coursework and passed the exam. No unread ghosts, no emotionally unavailable swipers — a certificate is the price of admission.

100%certified members
The flex
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Your Readiness Score

A single number that says you did the emotional work — attachment, conflict repair, the whole curriculum. People screenshot it. People post it.

84readiness, shareable
The magic
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"Why you match" — decoded

Not a vibe. Real overlap: shared modules, love languages, and values, laid out so you know why before you say hi.

22mutual interests avg
The founding pool

The people you'll actually meet.

Every member is certified — they did the coursework before they earned a place. Real, grown, and gloriously varied.

94%
Maya, 29
✓ Certified
91%
Amara, 30
✓ Certified
88%
Kenji, 29
✓ Certified
96%
Sofía, 27
✓ Certified
89%
Rohan, 32
✓ Certified
Couple
Nia & Daniel, 44
✓ Certified together
92%
Ash, 28
✓ Certified · they/them

Illustrative — names and images represent the kind of members the Academy is built for. Every member earns their place by completing the coursework and certifying.

A look inside

Coursework, matches, and a certificate with your name on it.

Finish the academy, unlock Discover, and earn a shareable Relationship-Readiness Certificate.

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The AcademyEight modules, then the exam
Vesica Academy Discover screen with a certified match card
Maya, a certified member
● Online94%MATCH
Maya, 29
◍ Los Angeles
CreativeOutdoorsFoodie
DiscoverOnly certified members, real compatibility
Vesica Academy Relationship-Readiness Certificate
Your CertificateMajors, minors, and a shareable ID
Three phases, one transformation

Grow first. Then meet your match.

Learn

Eight modules on attachment, desire, conflict repair and secure love — grounded in the published relationship science. Designed to be finished, not browsed.

Certify

Pass the Relationship-Readiness exam and earn a certificate with your name on it — proof you did the work before you asked anyone else to.

Connect

Only then does Discover open. Match with certified members on real compatibility, message, and grow together.

Grow together, then meet your match

Love isn't found. It's built.

Two people who did the work, meeting in the middle. That's the whole idea — and it's rarer, and more magnetic, than anything you'll find swiping tonight.

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Membership

Free to learn. Pay to go deeper.

The Academy and your certification are free — always. Membership is for what happens after you've earned your way in.

Premium
For daters who want the full pool.
$20/ month
or $180 / yearsave 25%
  • ✦ See every certified member, not just those at or below your readiness score
  • ✦ 40 Pearls a month — uncapped, never expire
  • ✦ Read receipts, Private Mode, profile analytics
  • ✦ Spotlight at half the Pearl cost, for twice as long
  • ✦ Kink Electives included — Shibari, Cunnilingus, Fellatio & Safe Sex, no prerequisites
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Platinum
Everything in Premium, plus the compatibility layer.
$40/ month
or $350 / yearsave 27%
  • ✦ Everything in Premium
  • ✦ Kink Compatibility Test for couples and individuals
  • ✦ Kink profile badge on your match cards
  • ✦ Expert Library — curated relationship & intimacy reading
  • ✦ Anonymous Desire Signals and priority placement in Discover
Start free →

Nothing is charged to take the coursework or sit the Certification Exam. Cancel any time.

The Academy is open

Grow first.
Then meet your match.

Start the coursework free, earn your certification, and unlock Discover — a pool of people who did the work too.

Open the app →
The Academy is open — start your coursework free